Haven’t posted in a while. These are strange times in which we live. I have been talking with a friend who is struggling through a difficult time in her M/s D/lg relationship. We talked about forgiveness and moving past some things. It made me think about what is considered appropriate …
First, let me apologize to you all for the length of time since I last posted. Much has changed in my life and the transition has not been easy. Relationships have changed and I am sure will change again. But, as usual, I observe what goes on around me and …
I am in a dialog with a gentleman who mentioned some issues beginning with a quoted statement on how a slave “will always act and respond in such a way as to make the Master’s orders look ‘right.’” This brings up conflicting views in my mind. I will start with …
It has been a while since writing. For that I apologize. Holidays, health and births have taken my attention. But here are some thoughts. It was often told to me that it is the Dominant’s responsibility to satisfy the Needs of their submissives, but it is their choice as to …
OK, I get up this morning and go to the computer to check my mail. A game that my youngest son recommended is finished loading off of STEAM. (He has recommended the most excellent games to me. The last one was “Life is Strange“, things new, that I would not have …
What is it that brings this full circle? What gives this glorious BDSM relationship the stability and support that allows it to exist? It is Obedience. In the beginning it is obedience to Transparency. It is said that when a submissive holds something back, she is taking control of the relationship. …
Last time I spoke on Transparency (as I have often and before), and the necessity for those on the right side of the D/s or M/s slash (the s) to be clear and complete in their communication to their partner on the left (the D and M) no matter how contradictory or …
I am not quite there, but I expect to be soon. Those who read here know that I have been in the process of buying a house. It is in a northern suburb of Austin Texas. I do not truly feel I am a Texan, but I am realizing the …
I am now in Escrow to buy a house. It is not the first house I have bought, but it is my first house. As my wife said a month back, when she bought her house, “This is the first house that will be all mine. I expect to die here. It …
I know, I know, I have promised far more posts about my trip to Chicago, and I do hope to continue. However, there was much physical and emotional preparation to be done as I now had an opportunity to attend the Exxxotica in Dallas, a new and exciting event for …
