First I want to apologize for the extended silence. While I will spare you the rather lurid details, shortly before my trip to Chicago I caught a bug which has seemed to be intractable. So far, no diagnosis and to one level or another, it has stayed with me. While in …
I will be going back to Chicago, July 10 to the 18th. I am greatly looking forward to my visit. I will be there to speak, perform and pontificate at Mistress C’s Exxxotica Dungeon for the three days of the convention. But it is my home town and where I lived …
This was quoted in a Tumblr gathered by my puppy bear and I found it spot on. After a bit of looking I found the original here if you wish to follow. ———- Dominant Traits – Submission is Earned Not Ordered In my seemingly endless quest to identify and describe the essence …
My life does not point towards the business end of things. Even in creative endeavors, that part of it has always been difficult for me. But I have often found great personal wisdom from Seth Godin. Case in point, today’s was about the difference between speaking, and speaking up. I …
I will be on Dr. Bob Rubel’s webinar this evening 6p Pacific (9pm Eastern). You must sign up for the class, but they are free. The subject is “I want a Daddy” – Nurturing Relationships with Arach and Brett – What is a Daddy? Do Daddy’s play sexually with their little girls/boys? Is this …
It has been a while since I wrote here. I hope you are all well. It seems that I am now settled in the Austin Area. I have touched base with members of my family, have taken delivery of all STUFF (far more than I have any reason to have …
I am just home from watching the film, “About Time” with Bill Nighy, Domhnall Gleeson, and Rachel McAdams. Yea, this sounds as if it will be a movie review, and maybe it will. It was greatly enjoyable. I was laughing loudly and weeping copiously, for reasons that are probably quite …
Within the next few months, certainly before the end of the year, I will be leaving the most beautiful city of Santa Barbara, California and moving to Austin, Texas. There are many thoughts, fears, and expectations around this endeavor but those are not the purpose of this blog. That statement …
Sunday began with some nerves as it was my time for a presentation “Sexualizing Your Scene”. I mean what do you do with that. Isn’t sex the point? In many cases, no. Some people enjoy extensive forms of Sadomasochistic play, humiliation play, service or entire relationships which do not involve sexual …
I will continue my description of my delightful weekend at “Behind Closed Doors – Mutation“ but I have a need to express a bit about a dear girl previously mentioned here as BonB. I wrote extensively about my relationship with her beginning here and continuing on for several – more – posts. This …
