Behind Closed Doors 2012

I have just returned from an excellent weekend in Tucson at Behind Closed Doors – Mutation, run by the Baja Arizona Leather organization and run and created by the phenomenal Jefferson James and his good lady Lois, both of whom did a Phenominal job this weekend involving a great deal …

BonB for Dinner

So Exxxotica is finished, I am having a delightful time re-exploring my old home town.  (Raised from year 1 in the same house on the North Shore outside of Chicago all the way through my college years.)  I had a needed opportunity to see my admired and loved cousin and …

Relationship skills

I am finding at this time that it is difficult to remember what happened on which days, so if chronology seems a bit strained, please excuse me. As you hopefully know, I tend to emphasize relationship issues.  It is what particularly moves me, it is what I desire.  Casual play …

Willing Participants

While I often wander around the convention hall with my single tail and handcuffs, cracking as sort of a “Hear Ye, Hear Ye, Thy Dungeon is open for the Interested”  The best time of all is spent in the play space talking to people who have serious interest and explaining, …

Chicago

I am just back from a truly glorious twelve days in Chicago.  The trip was basically for two reasons, as many of you know.  The first, for Exxxotica, three long days midst masses of eye candy, quality presenters, and vast quantities of willing participants.  The second to visit, reconnect and …

Exxxotica Chicago

I am heavily into prep for my trip to Chicago.  Three intense days at Exxxotica with my friend Mistress C, followed by a week wandering my old home town with relatives and fond friends both old and new.  I will try to inform you all about the happenings, but I will …

Close the Door

Hmm, where did I leave off.  Ah, Saturday night’s party. It was a club slightly different than my experience.  The play-space was medium in size with what almost seemed a gallery (I did not say peanut) near the entrance where many members sat and watched the goings on. The scene …

Behind Closed Doors 3

Twas Friday night after a long drive from Santa Barbara to Tucson.  I left early, but that dumped me in LA right through morning rush hour.  My GPS told me that added an hour to my travel time. Finally I arrived and after some search, finally found the hotel.  I …

Behind Closed Doors 2

Today was a busy day with shopping to re-supply the apartment, auditions for the Santa Barbara Art Association (they like it, so I guess I am an official artist now), and dealing with a back in spasm due to the 10 hour drive, but I wanted to quickly mention how much I …

Behind Closed Doors

I am very pumped.  I am off to Tucson next Friday to present at Behind Closed Doors in Tucson.  I have searched for and found a lovely lady to assist and be my Demo Bottom, and have exchanged many emails on all levels of expectations, attitudes and interests.  She seems a …

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