Chicago Friday

First I want to apologize for the extended silence.  While I will spare you the rather lurid details, shortly before my trip to Chicago I caught a bug which has seemed to be intractable.  So far, no diagnosis and to one level or another, it has stayed with me.  While in …

For the Love of a Submissive

This was quoted in a Tumblr gathered by my puppy bear and I found it spot on.  After a bit of looking I found the original here if you wish to follow. ———- Dominant Traits – Submission is Earned Not Ordered In my seemingly endless quest to identify and describe the essence …

What is Important

My life does not point towards the business end of things.  Even in creative endeavors, that part of it has always been difficult for me.  But I have often found great personal wisdom from Seth Godin.  Case in point, today’s was about the difference between speaking, and speaking up. I …

Questions and Answers

I ask you your feelings about things because I want to know.  How do you feel about that?  Do you like this? Do you want to go?  Where’s your head?  Do you trust him?  Why are you saying yes?  Why no?  Why? When I have the answers then I have an …

Control

It has been a long time since I have written here. I apologize for that. As I think you know, I have recently moved several states from California, and for good or ill, I will tell you now that Texas is far more than moving to another state. It is …

A Collar of Consideration

As those who know me are quite aware, I tend to be rather free in voicing my opinion.  I don’t really feel there is anything wrong in that as I also tend to listen to the reactions.  I was in a large group the other day where the subject of …

With a Word

I have started this blog many times and am still not sure how to go about it.  I want to talk about that magical moment when a woman comes for you.  Yes, women can obviously cum for themselves, and many do.  Some cum for themselves even when they are with …

Tomorrow, and the Game

As many of you know I have been in communication with a truly delightful young girl who is quite close to my heart.  Since we are both quite distant right now, and because we both are highly sexual creatures, we often play quite serious sexual games over the phone.  As …

10 Days to Independence

I want to talk about a very personal and unique time in my life.  I have misgivings about speaking about it in this forum, but it is extremely important to me, and it touches on many things discussed here. In my last post I mentioned that an important and significant …

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