Please, Sir, tell me how you want it done.
I feel myself to be an empathetic person. But empathy requires awareness. When I see someone in pain, it effects me. Entitlement, however, is a strange condition where its presence is marked particularly by operating outside of the beneficiaries awareness. I am a tall Caucasian male, well spoken, who knows how to dress …
Knowledge comes to you from many locations if you are open to it. I read a post quite a while back from a gentleman (and I use that word quite purposefully) in Zuid-Holland, Netherlands, an area of the world with which I have no familiarity. But his writing echoed much …
Charlie Glickman, one of my favorite Bloggers, has written eloquently on Shame and the distinction between the emotion of shame you feel and the action of shaming others. The distinction is worth some work. I come from a background of deep shaming. It was a tool continually used by my father for many strong and …
I feel I am being repetitive, so assume this is coming from the DRD or Department of Redundancy Department. “It is My Way or the Highway. I am the Dominant here. I make the rules. You submit. I don’t want to hear your opinion.” Well, that makes things easy. You do …
A wide variety of things are crossing my purview this day. I really enjoy Tumblrotica for its quality erotic photos. There is an offshoot titled Sadistic-Games that has caught my interest for its thoughts and images and one in particular dated November 3 (yea, you have to scroll down, but the trip is …
I saw this in Tumblrotica.com this morning. It spoke to me, as if you wouldn’t know. The Eroticist
Dominant’s, Master’s, those people that submissives turn to for instructions, for guidance, for caring direction in their lives, we take on the responsibility for the care of our partners, for their physical and mental health and spiritual growth. We take on this responsibility for the maintenance of our relationship for our own …
I see so many profiles from young people saying so firmly that they are committed to slavery and looking for a Master, or identify totally as a submissive and are looking for a Dominant. Now for those of us with any experience with on line communities, we know that the …
It was told to me that in the annals of porn that talking dirty, now a mainstay of the industry, was once something that needed to be coached from the actors. (Actually, primarily the actresses, since in mainstream porn, it is the ladies who carry the spot-lite, or microphone in this case.) That …
I must admit to a bit of hesitation every time I hear the adjective “REAL” (usually in caps) applied to either submissive or Dominant. It is most often used to describe how “you” or “he” or “she” is not a REAL submissive because…. Or how a REAL Dominant should behave. It …
