Please, Sir, tell me how you want it done.
I read this today from a profile on a popular BDSM community site. “***I am now Under Consideration in trial Ownership as property. I’m no longer permitted to correspond with any men or Dominants. Thank you.***” I see this kind of thing a lot and it astounds me. A submissive, in this …
This article was a significant one for me. It is about care, not only for our play partners, but also for ourselves. It is not about a Dominant’s care for his submissive, but of that submissive’s care for their Dominant. Both are necessary. While my original impetus comes from being a sadistic …
For those who do not know me, I am a mature gentleman, rather large in stature. I am 6′ 7″ tall and definitely a WASP. I live within the white male prerogative and like a fish in water, it has been a slow education for me to understand what that actually means. Each …
“What I think is mental domination..hmm..I think it’s something like the Jedi power. It’s getting to know someone so I know what makes them tick, and can use that to control them, give them orders, and all the rest. I like having people around me cater to my every whim …
I have finished the “Fifty Shades of Grey” series. Again, I will do my best to avoid any plot points. I know it is a phenomenally popular series, and do not wish to spoil it for any prospective readers. But my reactions continue. As anyone could probably guess, Christian Grey is, in …
I wanted to talk a bit about myself. You must understand that what I am about to say about myself, to the extent that I can manage at this time of my life, is the truth. Within the context of the lifestyle, I am very much a Dominant. Now I …
Those of us in the lifestyle and probably everyone who, at one time or other wanted a date, have seen the dance, that tentative exploration and sometime flashing displays of what we can do, all to capture the attention of someone we do not yet know. As a Dominant heterosexual …
I have just finished the second of the “50 Shades of Grey” series. It continues to perpetuate its major failing, in my eyes, that of associating sadistic Dominance with an extreme traumatic history of abuse. While I can not say that for some there has not been such an association …
There is no relationship on earth, through out the existence of life that has not had severely rough times. I have to say at the outset that this is absolutely true of me. Rough times come with the territory, particularly as life takes you from a pretty standard vanilla marriage to being highly …
In a recent conversation I was having on FetLife.Com, a friend mentioned that “Its all about trust and having fun while doing so at least for me.” That prompted a rather heartfelt response from me and I thought I would elaborate here. As you know, I have been reading “50 …
