While I often wander around the convention hall with my single tail and handcuffs, cracking as sort of a “Hear Ye, Hear Ye, Thy Dungeon is open for the Interested” The best time of all is spent in the play space talking to people who have serious interest and explaining, …
I am just back from a truly glorious twelve days in Chicago. The trip was basically for two reasons, as many of you know. The first, for Exxxotica, three long days midst masses of eye candy, quality presenters, and vast quantities of willing participants. The second to visit, reconnect and …
For quite a while I have been reading a blog from a lovely young girl who talks eloquently about her submission. She talks about her deep commitment to her Dominant partner, how profoundly erotic is the relationship and how much she trust him with her deepest secrets. There is much there that …
What do you do when someone you have known and loved for many many years suddenly tells you she wants you to hurt her? She wants you to be rough with her. She wants to be spanked, to be bit, to be slapped, to get marks from you, marks that …
With every fiber of my being, I wanted to be normal. I wanted to be accepted. I wanted to be OK. I wanted people to look at me and know me and smile and wave and think, there goes a good guy. I wanted to live a life that is …
This post began as a reply to a post on FetLife. The question had to do with terms Sensual or Romantic Dominant or Sadist, but the response certainly can be applied to all terms used within a BDSM context, perhaps within a broader context. There is no book, no rules, …
All through my exploration of the BDSM lifestyle, my Dominance, and my sexual Sadism, I have heard well reasoned reports, some from well respected scientific journals, about the causal association between early physical and sexual abuse and a later interest in Sadomasochism. Everyone around me, until I found a community, …
