Computers and Evolution

I might have blogged on this previously, but I couldn’t find it.  (HA!  I found them here and here.  But it is an important subject.)  But some interchanges between myself and several other people have prompted me to express my very strong opinion on textual communication and particularly internet romance. …

Shades Freed

I have finished the “Fifty Shades of Grey” series.  Again, I will do my best to avoid any plot points.  I know it is a phenomenally popular series, and do not wish to spoil it for any prospective readers. But my reactions continue.  As anyone could probably guess, Christian Grey is, in …

Two Sides

I wanted to talk a bit about myself.  You must understand that what I am about to say about myself, to the extent that I can manage at this time of my life, is the truth. Within the context of the lifestyle, I am very much a Dominant.  Now I …

The Sadist I Am

I tend to have this discussion several times a year.  People ask me why I like to torture people.  My usual and almost imediate reaction is to look at them with an expression of, “Christ, what kind of an Ass Hole do you think I am?”  So I thought I would …

The Hangover?

I was reading a blog from earlier this month by my friend Ana.  She talks about being a bit hungover after an early play session with her on line Dominant.  While she did not mention the kind of play or the actions she undertook at his command, her reaction was one …

To Bind the Mind

I will be describing a form of rope bondage here, but text is a bit awkward for that purpose and I will not include massive numbers of photos or video as that is not the purpose of this post, so I will begin with a strong caveat.  Bondage is by far the …

First Meetings

I have been hearing lately from some people who are experiencing some difficulty with first meetings.  Please understand that any recommendation made can go for male or female, Dominant or submissive.  I will honestly say that I was planning an extensive post here, but in checking through my links, truly, it …

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