Thoughts Worth Remembering

A wide variety of things are crossing my purview this day.  I really enjoy Tumblrotica for its quality erotic photos.  There is an offshoot titled Sadistic-Games that has caught my interest for its thoughts and images and one in particular dated November 3 (yea, you have to scroll down, but the trip is …

Lists and Lessons and Charlie Glickman

One of my favorite bloggers is Charlie Glickman.  Hopefully this link will consistently bring you to his lecture on Paul Kivel’s “Act Like a Man” Box exercises.  Charlie is unashamedly gay, and definitely not what you might think of as a Cosmo Girl.  I use the reference appropriately as you will see, as well as the term …

Practice

I think I can safely say that everyone knows the concept of Practice.  If you practice a craft, you get better at it.  You learn simpler ways of doing it.  You become more consistent at it.  Doing the craft becomes easier for you.  With exercise, a kind of practice, your reflexes become faster …

Hysterical Literature

It is difficult for me to describe with to anyone in any believable way how important it is to me that my partner cums.  I do not mean, “Oh, that was nice”  I mean totally out of control complete out of body, move to exhaustion or loss of consciousness cum.  I mean women …

Dirty Talk

It was told to me that in the annals of porn that talking dirty, now a mainstay of the industry, was once something that needed to be coached from the actors.  (Actually, primarily the actresses, since in mainstream porn, it is the ladies who carry the spot-lite, or microphone in this case.)  That …

The Olympics

I have had occasion to watch quite a bit of the London Olympics.  It has been an emotional and astounding experience for me.  I found myself overcome with pride and admiration for the strength of their accomplishments, the stories of Michael Phelps and Oscar Pistorius stand out specifically. While one …

AfterCare

This article was a significant one for me.  It is about care, not only for our play partners, but also for ourselves.  It is not about a Dominant’s care for his submissive, but of that submissive’s care for their Dominant.  Both are necessary.  While my original impetus comes from being a sadistic …

Sunday, Connections and the Woman

Sunday at Exxxotica!  Saturday was exhausting not only for the ten hour length of the non-stop day but for the heart pumping excitement of the crowds, constant opportunities to talk and teach and demonstrate differing techniques with Happy Volunteers, all of whom left happier than they came, which was a delight to …

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