A “Serious” Subject

I have been thinking recently about the seriousness of the activities we do.  Being a Sadist, I engage in activities which should definitely be taken seriously.  I purposely cause severe levels of sensation to people who are often bound in …

Communication

Most people here know I tend to emphasize communication as a beneficial art form.  While I do tend to feel that it is valuable in ALL relationships, I think that it is a requirement in a D/s or M/s relationship.…

How can we help?

I am often asked to talk about the differences between the Kink community and what we euphemistically call the Vanilla world.  Obviously there are the behavioral differences, the clubs we attend where we engage in semi-public BDSM play, the dress, …

Abuse Causes SadoMasochism?

All through my exploration of the BDSM lifestyle, my Dominance, and my sexual Sadism, I have heard well reasoned reports, some from well respected scientific journals, about the causal association between early physical and sexual abuse and a later interest …

I Know What You Should Do

Dominant’s, Master’s, those people that submissives turn to for instructions, for guidance, for caring direction in their lives, we take on the responsibility for the care of our partners, for their physical and mental health and spiritual growth.  We take …

What means What?

I have been away for a while, and my apologies go out to my consistent readers.  My mind has been occupied by computer issues, art and new people.

My friend KinkyLittleGirl (Link on the right) had a repost up recently …

Manipulation and Goals

This has been a hard post to express.  I know my conclusions, but how did I get there?  My issue is that the usual description of the Dominant and submissive relationship is, not only simplistic, but usually completely false.  “I …

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