I have been thinking recently about the seriousness of the activities we do. Being a Sadist, I engage in activities which should definitely be taken seriously. I purposely cause severe levels of sensation to people who are often bound in …
Most people here know I tend to emphasize communication as a beneficial art form. While I do tend to feel that it is valuable in ALL relationships, I think that it is a requirement in a D/s or M/s relationship.…
I am often asked to talk about the differences between the Kink community and what we euphemistically call the Vanilla world. Obviously there are the behavioral differences, the clubs we attend where we engage in semi-public BDSM play, the dress, …
The Holidays are here and for most of us there will be a great deal of happy feasting ahead in the next few weeks. Good food and good company, be it a broad collection of family and friends or one …
Anyone who is a regular reader of my blog is familiar with Reid Mihalko‘s Elevator Speech. (Yes, there are three links there, though the last one is down through December 14th, 2012. At least that is what it …
All through my exploration of the BDSM lifestyle, my Dominance, and my sexual Sadism, I have heard well reasoned reports, some from well respected scientific journals, about the causal association between early physical and sexual abuse and a later interest …
Dominant’s, Master’s, those people that submissives turn to for instructions, for guidance, for caring direction in their lives, we take on the responsibility for the care of our partners, for their physical and mental health and spiritual growth. We take …
First I should apologize. It has been a hard week, full of a sore throat, coughing, sneezing, nose sore from wiping, bed, a LOT of water, bad sleep and a VERY strange mental state. But as the Bible says, “It …
I have been away for a while, and my apologies go out to my consistent readers. My mind has been occupied by computer issues, art and new people.
My friend KinkyLittleGirl (Link on the right) had a repost up recently …
This has been a hard post to express. I know my conclusions, but how did I get there? My issue is that the usual description of the Dominant and submissive relationship is, not only simplistic, but usually completely false. “I …
