Wants and Needs
It has been a while since writing. For that I apologize. Holidays, health and births have taken my attention. But here are some thoughts.
It was often told to me that it is the Dominant’s responsibility to satisfy the Needs …
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A Tumblr post
Yes, I know, I have promised to post more on Exxxotica, but I got hit with some additional surgery, and I am recovering, so just wait, ok?
However, in my bed of pain I ran across a tumblr that truly …
Exxxotica 2015 Part deux, BonBlundt
So, plans are made to go to Chicago, and I know that BonB will be there. We talk many times on the phone and reminisce about our time in Santa Barbara, two years ago. So many elements of our play …
Going Home
It is that time of year again when Exxxotica goes to Chicago. There be my old home town and I greatly enjoy the visit with old high school friends, relatives and significant others, OWS in particular. I have been involved …
Why do we do what we do?
I got a post from one of my favorite bloggers today, Charlie Glickman. It explores the reasons people have some of the more extreme physical interactions within their relationships that they do, certainly that we do in BDSM relationships. …
Appropriate Questions
It has been a long time since I wrote. My mind has been on establishing relationships, becoming comfortable in new communities, establishing a new presence and occupation in my new home, and discovering new places for me in the world.…