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Housekeeping:  We are negotiating our way through a new Theme so things may not be where you expect.  Next time you visit, they may be moved again.  Please be patient. CURRENT ANNOUNCEMENTS In 2017 I began passing on what knowledge I could through the Austin Mentors Program. I have continued through …

LDR and Textual Communication

We live in a world now that was almost unimaginable in my childhood. Remember that this was before Telstar (July 10, 1962 ) the first communication satellite, though a century after the first transatlantic telegraph cable (1858). (Yea, I am an old fuck, just starting my fourth quarter-century.) But the …

Following the Rules

Over the last 30 years since I began in the lifestyle the major mistake I have seen from Doms and subs is that there is firm rulebook that everyone is to follow to the best of their ability or they are not REAL, like some form of Velvetine kink person.  …

Knowing what you want

I hope that what I am about to say here is totally unnecessary.  I want to be clear here. I am not saying that there are not great personal rewards in knowing you have deeply pleased your partner. That, in itself can be a profound reward. But I also believe …

Ordering

This is a follow-up to an earlier post, so do not think I am referring to commands given to someone who has given you authority.  Nope.  Tiz about Dinner. Oft it seems that The Book of BDSM says a Dominant must eventually order all meals for those in their charge, …

Punishing a Masochist

I have probably hit this subject many times before, but I was in an interesting discussion in a subreddit. It was involving the difficulties involved with punishing a masochist. I thought I would pass on some of the discussion here. “I am a strong sadist who enjoys a partner who …

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