I have probably hit this subject many times before, but I was in an interesting discussion in a subreddit. It was involving the difficulties involved with punishing a masochist. I thought I would pass on some of the discussion here. “I am a strong sadist who enjoys a partner who …
Me or Thee, what is important in MY relationship.
I saw this post on Redditt and it brought a lot of thoughts to mind. “So I’ve (23M) been dating this girl (21F) for about a year now. Our relationship has been a long distance relationship for a significant portion because of the pandemic. When we started dating my girlfriend …
It has been many months since I last wrote here. In that time much has changed. I am older, painfully wiser, and far more contemplative, at least for now. It has been several months since PB and I were together. She has a new owner. I have not found much …
Haven’t posted in a while. These are strange times in which we live. I have been talking with a friend who is struggling through a difficult time in her M/s D/lg relationship. We talked about forgiveness and moving past some things. It made me think about what is considered appropriate …
First, let me apologize to you all for the length of time since I last posted. Much has changed in my life and the transition has not been easy. Relationships have changed and I am sure will change again. But, as usual, I observe what goes on around me and …
I am in a dialog with a gentleman who mentioned some issues beginning with a quoted statement on how a slave “will always act and respond in such a way as to make the Master’s orders look ‘right.’” This brings up conflicting views in my mind. I will start with …
I put “Me Too” in quotes only to convey that I have not been a victim of sexual abuse, not to belittle it’s intent in any way. My thoughts are still jumbled, but strong. This is a subject of overwhelming importance to me, to my family, to families with young …
What to do if no matter how much you both WANT to do it, they can’t.
It has been a while since writing. For that I apologize. Holidays, health and births have taken my attention. But here are some thoughts. It was often told to me that it is the Dominant’s responsibility to satisfy the Needs of their submissives, but it is their choice as to …
