On “Me Too”
I put “Me Too” in quotes only to convey that I have not been a victim of sexual abuse, not to belittle it’s intent in any way. My thoughts are still jumbled, but strong. This is a subject of overwhelming
Wants, Needs and Abilities.
The issue of wants and needs is often discussed in terms of those on the right side of the slash, /s. It is often said that it is the submissive’s or slave’s responsibility to expose to their Dominant/Master/Owner all their …
Wants and Needs
It has been a while since writing. For that I apologize. Holidays, health and births have taken my attention. But here are some thoughts.
It was often told to me that it is the Dominant’s responsibility to satisfy the Needs …
A Message
OK, I get up this morning and go to the computer to check my mail.
A game that my youngest son recommended is finished loading off of STEAM. (He has recommended the most excellent games to me. The last one
… Thinking of a Beginning
As many of these things do, this began by being asked how things should begin. (For some reason, I am having strong remembrances of 1950’s fairy tale movies.) A gentleman wished to talk about being a Daddy Dom, and what …
The Triumvirate, the Third Leg
What is it that brings this full circle? What gives this glorious BDSM relationship the stability and support that allows it to exist? It is Obedience. In the beginning it is obedience to Transparency. It is said that …
The Triumvirate, the Second Leg
Last time I spoke on Transparency (as I have often and before), and the necessity for those on the right side of the D/s or M/s slash (the s) to be clear and complete in their communication to their …
The Triumvirate, the First Leg
I was once told that a three legged stool was the most sable, because it could never wobble. I am not sure if the analogy will hold through this. But it is a good place to start.
I often have …
When a house is a home
I am not quite there, but I expect to be soon.
Those who read here know that I have been in the process of buying a house. It is in a northern suburb of Austin Texas. I do not truly …
A very short post:
I am now in Escrow to buy a house. It is not the first house I have bought, but it is my first house. As my wife said a month back, when she bought her house, “This is the first …