This is my first edit of the General Opening Negotiations. I realize here that this would be a very redundant and extensive list of posts, so I will not continue. However, if anyone wishes to keep up to date, please add a comment or write me at the email posted …
It has been a while since writing. For that I apologize. Holidays, health and births have taken my attention. But here are some thoughts. It was often told to me that it is the Dominant’s responsibility to satisfy the Needs of their submissives, but it is their choice as to …
OK, I get up this morning and go to the computer to check my mail. A game that my youngest son recommended is finished loading off of STEAM. (He has recommended the most excellent games to me. The last one was “Life is Strange“, things new, that I would not have …
So, plans are made to go to Chicago, and I know that BonB will be there. We talk many times on the phone and reminisce about our time in Santa Barbara, two years ago. So many elements of our play go through our minds, strong emotional humiliation, deep submission, violent sadomasochism, and …
It is that time of year again when Exxxotica goes to Chicago. There be my old home town and I greatly enjoy the visit with old high school friends, relatives and significant others, OWS in particular. I have been involved in the Exxxotica Dungeon for 3 maybe 4 years now …
I have been talking quite a bit with close friends and important advisers over the past few weeks about what it is to be a Master. Many areas of discussion came up, one of the most important was the emotional care and involvement that a Master feels towards those who …
First I should apologize for my extended absence. I am an artist by trade, if you can actually use those terms together, and have just finished three shows, one quite major. Immediately following that, I was lucky enough to have some surgery from which I am still recovering. All is …
It has been a long time since I wrote. My mind has been on establishing relationships, becoming comfortable in new communities, establishing a new presence and occupation in my new home, and discovering new places for me in the world. Today I think about questions and the responses they engender in …
