Control – The Eroticist

I am here to express what insights I have into the human condition and the broad expanse of human sexual expression with the intent to show that, hey, it ain’t so bad out here, and with a little self examination, you might find something more that helps you bond with your chosen loved ones on a deeper more physical and more spiritual level.

Though we have never met, definitely my spiritual adviser Jack Kornfield.

My honored Single Tail Mentor and teacher, Robert Dante

Master Obsidian and slave namaste

Reid Mihalko -/- Midori

Kinky Little Girl -/- Madeline Elayne -/- Clarisse Thorn

Robert J. (Bob) Rubel, PhD and his Webinar -/- Esther Perel

Niles Willits-Spolin -/- NCSF -/- Pema Chödrön

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For the Love of a Submissive

June 18, 2014 June 18, 2014

This was quoted in a Tumblr gathered by my puppy bear and I found it spot on. After a bit of looking I found the original here if you wish to follow. ———- Dominant Traits – Submission is Earned Not Ordered In my seemingly endless quest to identify and describe the essence …

CURRENT ANNOUNCEMENTS

In 2017 I began passing on what knowledge I could through the Austin Mentors Program. I have continued through today discussing relationships and finding out exactly what it is you want … and teaching how to handle a single tail whip.

PREVIOUS ANNOUNCEMENTS

I took my (somewhat) unique form of Daddy Dominance to Exxxotica 2014 in Chicago. It was good to see many of my old friends and make new.

At SWLC I was asked to return to Behind Closed Doors in Oct., 2013 for a class on Making your Scene Erotic. That was fun. Information is here.

On Saturday, April 20, 2013 · 3:30 PM – 5:30 PM I presented “Introduction to Single Tail Whips in a Dungeon Setting” class at the Lair de Sade.

If you care about our children, if you care about this country, listen to this from Seth Godin.

Presented at Behind Closed Doors in Arizona over the weekend of September 14-16, 2012. It was an exciting weekend. Many new friends and educational and informative presentations.

At Chicago’s Exxxotica Dungeon doing demos and presentations the weekend of July 13th through the 15th. It was an exciting time of incredibly high energy.

On the Venus de Mila’s show on TSRNetwork.Com November 2, 2011. See it in their archive.