Time for Dinner

Next time you go out to dinner with someone you love, as you pull out their chair and move them in, gently run your hands down each arm and softly move their hands either behind them, or if that is uncomfortable, into their lap, and whisper into their ear, “Do not move.”  They will probably respond with, “What?”  Just repeat, “Do not move” as you pat her hands.  Perhaps cover them with their napkin.

Eating this way makes the accustomed task unusual, something physical that you share together. It makes it a time of play, of closeness, of sensuality, of one taking charge, control, and using that control to serve the one you love.  It is a dance.

Order for both of you.  If they are wise, they will accept whatever you decide.  It is only one meal, after all.  Then, as you continue conversation as you normally would.  You must feed them.  You must convey each fork or spoonful to their mouth – Serve.  They must open for you – Receive.  Your timing must match – The Dance.

On the practical side, it is easier if you sit at a small table and face your partner, be careful with the beverages and don’t dress in your best.  It can be tricky.  Enjoy.

The Eroticist

One comment

  1. Very sensual and erotic use of language Sir.

    You had me at “as you move their chair in, gently run your hands down each arm and softly move their hands behind them, and whisper in their ear, “Do not move.”

    Just reading that started whatever process starts when I am aroused and scared at the same time. Inside I am dancing with glee at all the variations of play that may have just been set in motion. And slight fear and anticipation as I know that my Master is very intelligent and has thought this scenario out quite thoroughly.

    And I have just begun to imagine all the possibilities that he may have in store to share with me. I am also relaxed….knowing that I will be taken care of even if I am taken beyond what I think are my limits….I am open and opening…. to receiving…just from his softly moving my hands behind me.

    I am a dancer….and I love to dance with a Master that knows how to lead……

    with respect,

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