Following the Rules

Over the last 30 years since I began in the lifestyle the major mistake I have seen from Doms and subs is that there is firm rulebook that everyone is to follow to the best of their ability or they …

Knowing what you want

I hope that what I am about to say here is totally unnecessary.  I want to be clear here. I am not saying that there are not great personal rewards in knowing you have deeply pleased your partner. That, in …

Announcements

Housekeeping:  We are negotiating our way through a new Theme so things may not be where you expect.  Next time you visit, they may be moved again.  Please be patient.

CURRENT ANNOUNCEMENTS

In 2017 I began passing on what knowledge …

Ordering

This is a follow-up to an earlier post, so do not think I am referring to commands given to someone who has given you authority.  Nope.  Tiz about Dinner.

Oft it seems that The Book of BDSM says a …

Punishing a Masochist

I have probably hit this subject many times before, but I was in an interesting discussion in a subreddit. It was involving the difficulties involved with punishing a masochist. I thought I would pass on some of the discussion here.…

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