The Danger of Emotional Scripts
I have been away for several months for the very best of reasons. More on that later for people who do not know me well.
A friend wrote me today about a particular situation that brought up some anger …
Category: Mental Games
Wants and Needs
It has been a while since writing. For that I apologize. Holidays, health and births have taken my attention. But here are some thoughts.
It was often told to me that it is the Dominant’s responsibility to satisfy the Needs …
Exxxotica 2015 Part deux, BonBlundt
So, plans are made to go to Chicago, and I know that BonB will be there. We talk many times on the phone and reminisce about our time in Santa Barbara, two years ago. So many elements of our play …
What is Important
My life does not point towards the business end of things. Even in creative endeavors, that part of it has always been difficult for me. But I have often found great personal wisdom from Seth Godin. Case in point, …
Control
It has been a long time since I have written here. I apologize for that. As I think you know, I have recently moved several states from California, and for good or ill, I will tell you now that Texas …
A Collar of Consideration
As those who know me are quite aware, I tend to be rather free in voicing my opinion. I don’t really feel there is anything wrong in that as I also tend to listen to the reactions. I was in …
Punishment, FUNishment and Brats
First of all, hello from TEXAS. The move was far more expensive than I expected, primarily due to my inability to stoically toss things before the move. But the house is slowly coming to order, I am getting to know …
A Merry and a Happy
It has been a while since I wrote here. I hope you are all well. It seems that I am now settled in the Austin Area. I have touched base with members of my family, have taken delivery of all …
Behind Closed Doors – 2012 (2)
Sunday began with some nerves as it was my time for a presentation “Sexualizing Your Scene”. I mean what do you do with that. Isn’t sex the point? In many cases, no. Some people enjoy extensive forms of Sadomasochistic …
Behind Closed Doors 2012
I have just returned from an excellent weekend in Tucson at Behind Closed Doors – Mutation, run by the Baja Arizona Leather organization and run and created by the phenomenal Jefferson James and his good lady Lois, both of …