I read this today from a profile on a popular BDSM community site. “***I am now Under Consideration in trial Ownership as property. I’m no longer permitted to correspond with any men or Dominants. Thank you.***” I see this kind of thing a lot and it astounds me. A submissive, in this …
I have had occasion to watch quite a bit of the London Olympics. It has been an emotional and astounding experience for me. I found myself overcome with pride and admiration for the strength of their accomplishments, the stories of Michael Phelps and Oscar Pistorius stand out specifically. While one …
This article was a significant one for me. It is about care, not only for our play partners, but also for ourselves. It is not about a Dominant’s care for his submissive, but of that submissive’s care for their Dominant. Both are necessary. While my original impetus comes from being a sadistic …
I have updated the Exxxotica blogs with some photos and I added a new page to this blog. I hope you check it out periodically. As I wander through life I am often lucky enough to hear something said that solidly connects with me. This page is dedicated to quotes …
I might have blogged on this previously, but I couldn’t find it. (HA! I found them here and here. But it is an important subject.) But some interchanges between myself and several other people have prompted me to express my very strong opinion on textual communication and particularly internet romance. …
Sunday at Exxxotica! Saturday was exhausting not only for the ten hour length of the non-stop day but for the heart pumping excitement of the crowds, constant opportunities to talk and teach and demonstrate differing techniques with Happy Volunteers, all of whom left happier than they came, which was a delight to …
After taking some time off for family visits and the Olympics (Whew, Awesome), I am back to Saturday at Exxxotica. Again, waking on that soft couch, OWS and I went off to an early lunch so I could head back to Exxxotica before it opened at noon. He took me to …
For those who do not know me, I am a mature gentleman, rather large in stature. I am 6′ 7″ tall and definitely a WASP. I live within the white male prerogative and like a fish in water, it has been a slow education for me to understand what that actually means. Each …
Friday was a very full day. I woke up on a very comfortable couch after my day at the Institute and the truly delightful dinner at Chinn’s. Once my good friend, OWS woke we had a quick and very Hot breakfast (he likes ’em spicy) and headed out to a …
Read this today, and it spoke to me. I offer it to you, only because the dream is something that keeps us open to all the gifts of the world. It is that openness that can lead to the most Erotic moments of our lives. “This Is the Dream,” by …
