Wants and Needs
It has been a while since writing. For that I apologize. Holidays, health and births have taken my attention. But here are some thoughts.
It was often told to me that it is the Dominant’s responsibility to satisfy the Needs …
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Exxxotica, Dallas
I know, I know, I have promised far more posts about my trip to Chicago, and I do hope to continue. However, there was much physical and emotional preparation to be done as I now had an opportunity to attend …
Exxxotica 2015 Part Trois, Lilly
In my first post on Exxxotica 2015 I mentioned the lovely Lilly, a beautiful young masochistic rigger, a possessor of the most astounding breasts and caring heart, who had just lost her Daddy. First I should say that she has …
Exxxotica 2015 Part deux, BonBlundt
So, plans are made to go to Chicago, and I know that BonB will be there. We talk many times on the phone and reminisce about our time in Santa Barbara, two years ago. So many elements of our play …
Why do we do what we do?
I got a post from one of my favorite bloggers today, Charlie Glickman. It explores the reasons people have some of the more extreme physical interactions within their relationships that they do, certainly that we do in BDSM relationships. …
Appropriate Questions
It has been a long time since I wrote. My mind has been on establishing relationships, becoming comfortable in new communities, establishing a new presence and occupation in my new home, and discovering new places for me in the world.…
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Why is it that one can see on some social media sites statements such as, “I have been a submissive all my life. I want to explore. I want to be owned.” This from someone Eighteen years of age.
Now …