This is my first edit of the General Opening Negotiations. I realize here that this would be a very redundant and extensive list of posts, so I will not continue. However, if anyone wishes to keep up to date, please add a comment or write me at the email posted …
I had a small conversation about feelings and the control thereof with CivilizedStallion prompted by his superb blog on https://thecage.co/. That and a conversation with my most loved girl this AM prompted me to jot down some thoughts. CivilizedStallion in his blog “Don’t Get Excited” stated that in moments of …
Over the last 30 years since I began in the lifestyle the major mistake I have seen from Doms and subs is that there is firm rulebook that everyone is to follow to the best of their ability or they are not REAL, like some form of Velvetine kink person. …
I have been alone, without a kink partner for a little over a year. The parting was difficult as it involved some complete untruths or half truths. It took me many months to get even close to being open to finding another partner. But I know enough of myself to …
I have been away for several months for the very best of reasons. More on that later for people who do not know me well. A friend wrote me today about a particular situation that brought up some anger and how she dealt with it. I think all of …
Housekeeping: We are negotiating our way through a new Theme so things may not be where you expect. Next time you visit, they may be moved again. Please be patient. CURRENT ANNOUNCEMENTS In 2017 I began passing on what knowledge I could through the Austin Mentors Program. I have continued through …
I have probably hit this subject many times before, but I was in an interesting discussion in a subreddit. It was involving the difficulties involved with punishing a masochist. I thought I would pass on some of the discussion here. “I am a strong sadist who enjoys a partner who …
Me or Thee, what is important in MY relationship.
I saw this post on Redditt and it brought a lot of thoughts to mind. “So I’ve (23M) been dating this girl (21F) for about a year now. Our relationship has been a long distance relationship for a significant portion because of the pandemic. When we started dating my girlfriend …
It has been many months since I last wrote here. In that time much has changed. I am older, painfully wiser, and far more contemplative, at least for now. It has been several months since PB and I were together. She has a new owner. I have not found much …
