Going Home
It is that time of year again when Exxxotica goes to Chicago. There be my old home town and I greatly enjoy the visit with old high school friends, relatives and significant others, OWS in particular. I have been involved …
Category: Relationship Maintenance
Love, Obedience and being a Master
I have been talking quite a bit with close friends and important advisers over the past few weeks about what it is to be a Master. Many areas of discussion came up, one of the most important was the emotional …
The submissive’s choice
First I should apologize for my extended absence. I am an artist by trade, if you can actually use those terms together, and have just finished three shows, one quite major. Immediately following that, I was lucky enough to have …
Why do we do what we do?
I got a post from one of my favorite bloggers today, Charlie Glickman. It explores the reasons people have some of the more extreme physical interactions within their relationships that they do, certainly that we do in BDSM relationships. …
Appropriate Questions
It has been a long time since I wrote. My mind has been on establishing relationships, becoming comfortable in new communities, establishing a new presence and occupation in my new home, and discovering new places for me in the world.…
Affirmative Consent, Saying Yes, and SB-967
One of my favorite bloggers, Charlie Glickman, wrote recently about California Senate Bill 967, the bill supporting “Affirmative Consent”. The bill has engendered the traditional range of pundit expressions from full support for our female students in peril …
A New Submissive, Children and Finding Someone On Line
I apologize for taking so long to get back to Exxxotica, and this will only be delayed further as I have a heavy weekend ahead and I was recently asked to comment on some important issues. A young mother expressed …
Chicago Friday
First I want to apologize for the extended silence. While I will spare you the rather lurid details, shortly before my trip to Chicago I caught a bug which has seemed to be intractable. So far, no diagnosis and to …
Back to Chicago
I will be going back to Chicago, July 10 to the 18th. I am greatly looking forward to my visit. I will be there to speak, perform and pontificate at Mistress C’s Exxxotica Dungeon for the three days of the …
For the Love of a Submissive
This was quoted in a Tumblr gathered by my puppy bear and I found it spot on. After a bit of looking I found the original here if you wish to follow.
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Dominant Traits – Submission is Earned Not …