What is Important
My life does not point towards the business end of things. Even in creative endeavors, that part of it has always been difficult for me. But I have often found great personal wisdom from Seth Godin. Case in point, …
Category: Relationship Maintenance
Questions and Answers
I ask you your feelings about things because I want to know. How do you feel about that? Do you like this? Do you want to go? Where’s your head? Do you trust him? Why are you saying yes? Why …
A Collar of Consideration
As those who know me are quite aware, I tend to be rather free in voicing my opinion. I don’t really feel there is anything wrong in that as I also tend to listen to the reactions. I was in …
Punishment, FUNishment and Brats
First of all, hello from TEXAS. The move was far more expensive than I expected, primarily due to my inability to stoically toss things before the move. But the house is slowly coming to order, I am getting to know …
A Merry and a Happy
It has been a while since I wrote here. I hope you are all well. It seems that I am now settled in the Austin Area. I have touched base with members of my family, have taken delivery of all …
About Time
I am just home from watching the film, “About Time” with Bill Nighy, Domhnall Gleeson, and Rachel McAdams. Yea, this sounds as if it will be a movie review, and maybe it will. It was greatly enjoyable. I …
Continuing BonB
I will continue my description of my delightful weekend at “Behind Closed Doors – Mutation“ but I have a need to express a bit about a dear girl previously mentioned here as BonB. I wrote extensively about my …
Behind Closed Doors 2012
I have just returned from an excellent weekend in Tucson at Behind Closed Doors – Mutation, run by the Baja Arizona Leather organization and run and created by the phenomenal Jefferson James and his good lady Lois, both of …
Tomorrow, and the Game
As many of you know I have been in communication with a truly delightful young girl who is quite close to my heart. Since we are both quite distant right now, and because we both are highly sexual creatures, we …
BonB, That Night, The Morning, and a Parting Gift
What happened that night, which included minimal amounts of sleep, was extremely significant and extraordinarily subtle. So much so that it will be difficult to describe. But the importance to communication, understanding, and Dominant and submissive relationships in general can …