What happened that night, which included minimal amounts of sleep, was extremely significant and extraordinarily subtle. So much so that it will be difficult to describe. But the importance to communication, understanding, and Dominant and submissive relationships in general can not be overstated. You must understand that the vast amount of our …
So Exxxotica is finished, I am having a delightful time re-exploring my old home town. (Raised from year 1 in the same house on the North Shore outside of Chicago all the way through my college years.) I had a needed opportunity to see my admired and loved cousin and …
We continue onward. After and during Exxxotica I was graced with the generosity of a dear friend, one I have known since College, who I will only name as OWS. He will know why. We spent the next week together when he was not at work and he very generously …
I am finding at this time that it is difficult to remember what happened on which days, so if chronology seems a bit strained, please excuse me. As you hopefully know, I tend to emphasize relationship issues. It is what particularly moves me, it is what I desire. Casual play …
While I often wander around the convention hall with my single tail and handcuffs, cracking as sort of a “Hear Ye, Hear Ye, Thy Dungeon is open for the Interested” The best time of all is spent in the play space talking to people who have serious interest and explaining, …
I am just back from a truly glorious twelve days in Chicago. The trip was basically for two reasons, as many of you know. The first, for Exxxotica, three long days midst masses of eye candy, quality presenters, and vast quantities of willing participants. The second to visit, reconnect and …
I have heard many people express concern over Daddy/Little Girl relationships. Their concern has been expressed to me as to the elements of incest and possible under 18 play. My personal view of Daddy/Little Girl play centers around the affection and nurturing necessary from a parental figure towards someone within their …
For quite a while I have been reading a blog from a lovely young girl who talks eloquently about her submission. She talks about her deep commitment to her Dominant partner, how profoundly erotic is the relationship and how much she trust him with her deepest secrets. There is much there that …
What do you do when someone you have known and loved for many many years suddenly tells you she wants you to hurt her? She wants you to be rough with her. She wants to be spanked, to be bit, to be slapped, to get marks from you, marks that …
With every fiber of my being, I wanted to be normal. I wanted to be accepted. I wanted to be OK. I wanted people to look at me and know me and smile and wave and think, there goes a good guy. I wanted to live a life that is …
