The difference between “Hurt” and “Harm.”
This is my first edit of the General Opening Negotiations. I realize here that this would be a very redundant and extensive list of posts, so I will not continue. However, if anyone wishes to keep up to date, please add a comment or write me at the email posted …
We live in a world now that was almost unimaginable in my childhood. Remember that this was before Telstar (July 10, 1962 ) the first communication satellite, though a century after the first transatlantic telegraph cable (1858). (Yea, I am an old fuck, just starting my fourth quarter-century.) But the …
Over the last 30 years since I began in the lifestyle the major mistake I have seen from Doms and subs is that there is firm rulebook that everyone is to follow to the best of their ability or they are not REAL, like some form of Velvetine kink person. …
I have been alone, without a kink partner for a little over a year. The parting was difficult as it involved some complete untruths or half truths. It took me many months to get even close to being open to finding another partner. But I know enough of myself to …
What to do if no matter how much you both WANT to do it, they can’t.
I know, I know, I have promised far more posts about my trip to Chicago, and I do hope to continue. However, there was much physical and emotional preparation to be done as I now had an opportunity to attend the Exxxotica in Dallas, a new and exciting event for …
Yes, I know, I have promised to post more on Exxxotica, but I got hit with some additional surgery, and I am recovering, so just wait, ok? However, in my bed of pain I ran across a tumblr that truly impressed me. It is the first I have ever actually …
It is that time of year again when Exxxotica goes to Chicago. There be my old home town and I greatly enjoy the visit with old high school friends, relatives and significant others, OWS in particular. I have been involved in the Exxxotica Dungeon for 3 maybe 4 years now …
I apologize for taking so long to get back to Exxxotica, and this will only be delayed further as I have a heavy weekend ahead and I was recently asked to comment on some important issues. A young mother expressed to me a growing interest in the BDSM lifestyle and …
This was quoted in a Tumblr gathered by my puppy bear and I found it spot on. After a bit of looking I found the original here if you wish to follow. ———- Dominant Traits – Submission is Earned Not Ordered In my seemingly endless quest to identify and describe the essence …
