Category: Being a Daddy

I want to be NORMAL

With every fiber of my being, I wanted to be normal.  I wanted to be accepted.  I wanted to be OK.  I wanted people to look at me and know me and smile and wave and think, there goes a good guy.  I wanted to live a life that is …

How can we help?

I am often asked to talk about the differences between the Kink community and what we euphemistically call the Vanilla world.  Obviously there are the behavioral differences, the clubs we attend where we engage in semi-public BDSM play, the dress, the ubiquitous black leather, the use of toys, the play with pain …

As you wish

In this age of internet communication and social media, in this time when relationships are easily begun and just as easily blocked, when personalities are presented as things other than what they are, one can spend a long time hunting for someone that matches what they desire. Every day I …

The Balance of Control

I feel I am being repetitive, so assume this is coming from the DRD or Department of Redundancy Department. “It is My Way or the Highway.  I am the Dominant here.  I make the rules.  You submit.  I don’t want to hear your opinion.”  Well, that makes things easy.  You do …

I Know What You Should Do

Dominant’s, Master’s, those people that submissives turn to for instructions, for guidance, for caring direction in their lives, we take on the responsibility for the care of our partners, for their physical and mental health and spiritual growth.  We take on this responsibility for the maintenance of our relationship for our own …

Patience

I am exploring a friendship with someone a very long distance away.  This relationship is becoming increasingly important to me and so becoming equally frightening and difficult. Being long distance and so, at this point exclusively textual (I have spoken on this before) it is repeatedly open to interpretative errors and misunderstandings, so I have attempted to be …

Practice

I have been quite rude over the last week, and have linked to this post twice but had not yet published it.    I am, however, glad I finished it for the link does take you here either way.  But I will tease you again and publish it today before …

Two Sides

I wanted to talk a bit about myself.  You must understand that what I am about to say about myself, to the extent that I can manage at this time of my life, is the truth. Within the context of the lifestyle, I am very much a Dominant.  Now I …

When Things get Rough

There is no relationship on earth, through out the existence of life that has not had severely rough times.  I have to say at the outset that this is absolutely true of me.  Rough times come with the territory, particularly as life takes you from a pretty standard vanilla marriage to being highly …

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