How can we help?

I am often asked to talk about the differences between the Kink community and what we euphemistically call the Vanilla world.  Obviously there are the behavioral differences, the clubs we attend where we engage in semi-public BDSM play, the dress, …

As you wish

In this age of internet communication and social media, in this time when relationships are easily begun and just as easily blocked, when personalities are presented as things other than what they are, one can spend a long time hunting …

I Know What You Should Do

Dominant’s, Master’s, those people that submissives turn to for instructions, for guidance, for caring direction in their lives, we take on the responsibility for the care of our partners, for their physical and mental health and spiritual growth.  We take …

Patience

I am exploring a friendship with someone a very long distance away.  This relationship is becoming increasingly important to me and so becoming equally frightening and difficult.

Being long distance and so, at this point exclusively textual (I have spoken

Practice

I have been quite rude over the last week, and have linked to this post twice but had not yet published it.    I am, however, glad I finished it for the link does take you here either way.  But I …

Two Sides

I wanted to talk a bit about myself.  You must understand that what I am about to say about myself, to the extent that I can manage at this time of my life, is the truth.

Within the context of …

When Things get Rough

There is no relationship on earth, through out the existence of life that has not had severely rough times.  I have to say at the outset that this is absolutely true of me.  Rough times come with the territory, particularly …

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