I apologize for taking so long to get back to Exxxotica, and this will only be delayed further as I have a heavy weekend ahead and I was recently asked to comment on some important issues. A young mother expressed to me a growing interest in the BDSM lifestyle and …
This was quoted in a Tumblr gathered by my puppy bear and I found it spot on. After a bit of looking I found the original here if you wish to follow. ———- Dominant Traits – Submission is Earned Not Ordered In my seemingly endless quest to identify and describe the essence …
My life does not point towards the business end of things. Even in creative endeavors, that part of it has always been difficult for me. But I have often found great personal wisdom from Seth Godin. Case in point, today’s was about the difference between speaking, and speaking up. I …
I ask you your feelings about things because I want to know. How do you feel about that? Do you like this? Do you want to go? Where’s your head? Do you trust him? Why are you saying yes? Why no? Why? When I have the answers then I have an …
It has been a long time since I have written here. I apologize for that. As I think you know, I have recently moved several states from California, and for good or ill, I will tell you now that Texas is far more than moving to another state. It is …
I will be on Dr. Bob Rubel’s webinar this evening 6p Pacific (9pm Eastern). You must sign up for the class, but they are free. The subject is “I want a Daddy” – Nurturing Relationships with Arach and Brett – What is a Daddy? Do Daddy’s play sexually with their little girls/boys? Is this …
I am just home from watching the film, “About Time” with Bill Nighy, Domhnall Gleeson, and Rachel McAdams. Yea, this sounds as if it will be a movie review, and maybe it will. It was greatly enjoyable. I was laughing loudly and weeping copiously, for reasons that are probably quite …
What happened that night, which included minimal amounts of sleep, was extremely significant and extraordinarily subtle. So much so that it will be difficult to describe. But the importance to communication, understanding, and Dominant and submissive relationships in general can not be overstated. You must understand that the vast amount of our …
So Exxxotica is finished, I am having a delightful time re-exploring my old home town. (Raised from year 1 in the same house on the North Shore outside of Chicago all the way through my college years.) I had a needed opportunity to see my admired and loved cousin and …
I have heard many people express concern over Daddy/Little Girl relationships. Their concern has been expressed to me as to the elements of incest and possible under 18 play. My personal view of Daddy/Little Girl play centers around the affection and nurturing necessary from a parental figure towards someone within their …
