Please, Sir, tell me how you want it done.
I had a small conversation about feelings and the control thereof with CivilizedStallion prompted by his superb blog on https://thecage.co/. That and a conversation with my most loved girl this AM prompted me to jot down some thoughts. CivilizedStallion in his blog “Don’t Get Excited” stated that in moments of …
Over the last 30 years since I began in the lifestyle the major mistake I have seen from Doms and subs is that there is firm rulebook that everyone is to follow to the best of their ability or they are not REAL, like some form of Velvetine kink person. …
I have been alone, without a kink partner for a little over a year. The parting was difficult as it involved some complete untruths or half truths. It took me many months to get even close to being open to finding another partner. But I know enough of myself to …
I have been away for several months for the very best of reasons. More on that later for people who do not know me well. A friend wrote me today about a particular situation that brought up some anger and how she dealt with it. I think all of …
Me or Thee, what is important in MY relationship.
I saw this post on Redditt and it brought a lot of thoughts to mind. “So I’ve (23M) been dating this girl (21F) for about a year now. Our relationship has been a long distance relationship for a significant portion because of the pandemic. When we started dating my girlfriend …
First, let me apologize to you all for the length of time since I last posted. Much has changed in my life and the transition has not been easy. Relationships have changed and I am sure will change again. But, as usual, I observe what goes on around me and …
I am in a dialog with a gentleman who mentioned some issues beginning with a quoted statement on how a slave “will always act and respond in such a way as to make the Master’s orders look ‘right.’” This brings up conflicting views in my mind. I will start with …
What to do if no matter how much you both WANT to do it, they can’t.
As many of these things do, this began by being asked how things should begin. (For some reason, I am having strong remembrances of 1950’s fairy tale movies.) A gentleman wished to talk about being a Daddy Dom, and what was needed. Many things came to mind, but this was …
