Challenges, and overwhelming adventures
I have been alone, without a kink partner for a little over a year. The parting was difficult as it involved some complete untruths or half truths. It took me many months to get even close to being open to …
Category: Dominance and submission
Please, Sir, tell me how you want it done.
The Danger of Emotional Scripts
I have been away for several months for the very best of reasons. More on that later for people who do not know me well.
A friend wrote me today about a particular situation that brought up some anger …
The value of my partner’s passion
I am not sure the cause of this writing. Perhaps my 73 years, perhaps it’s being alone, perhaps being stuck in my house with no water and fear of power loss for the last 3 frozen days.
I enjoy strong …
Problems with online
I saw this post on Redditt and it brought a lot of thoughts to mind.
“So I’ve (23M) been dating this girl (21F) for about a year now. Our relationship has been a long distance relationship for a significant portion …
Sunglasses and Cilantro
First, let me apologize to you all for the length of time since I last posted. Much has changed in my life and the transition has not been easy. Relationships have changed and I am sure will change again.
But, …
On Being Right
I am in a dialog with a gentleman who mentioned some issues beginning with a quoted statement on how a slave “will always act and respond in such a way as to make the Master’s orders look ‘right.’”
This brings …
Wants, Needs and Abilities.
The issue of wants and needs is often discussed in terms of those on the right side of the slash, /s. It is often said that it is the submissive’s or slave’s responsibility to expose to their Dominant/Master/Owner all their …
Thinking of a Beginning
As many of these things do, this began by being asked how things should begin. (For some reason, I am having strong remembrances of 1950’s fairy tale movies.) A gentleman wished to talk about being a Daddy Dom, and what …
The Triumvirate, the Third Leg
What is it that brings this full circle? What gives this glorious BDSM relationship the stability and support that allows it to exist? It is Obedience. In the beginning it is obedience to Transparency. It is said that …
The Triumvirate, the Second Leg
Last time I spoke on Transparency (as I have often and before), and the necessity for those on the right side of the D/s or M/s slash (the s) to be clear and complete in their communication to their …