What is Important
My life does not point towards the business end of things. Even in creative endeavors, that part of it has always been difficult for me. But I have often found great personal wisdom from Seth Godin. Case in point, …
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BonB, That Night, The Morning, and a Parting Gift
What happened that night, which included minimal amounts of sleep, was extremely significant and extraordinarily subtle. So much so that it will be difficult to describe. But the importance to communication, understanding, and Dominant and submissive relationships in general can …
Chicago
I am just back from a truly glorious twelve days in Chicago. The trip was basically for two reasons, as many of you know. The first, for Exxxotica, three long days midst masses of eye candy, quality presenters, and vast …
She Isn’t Kidding
What do you do when someone you have known and loved for many many years suddenly tells you she wants you to hurt her? She wants you to be rough with her. She wants to be spanked, to be bit, …
I want to be NORMAL
With every fiber of my being, I wanted to be normal. I wanted to be accepted. I wanted to be OK. I wanted people to look at me and know me and smile and wave and think, there goes a …
Sexual Outsiders and the Constriction of Shame
Charlie Glickman, one of my favorite Bloggers, has written eloquently on Shame and the distinction between the emotion of shame you feel and the action of shaming others. The distinction is worth some work.
I come from a background of …
Abuse Causes SadoMasochism?
All through my exploration of the BDSM lifestyle, my Dominance, and my sexual Sadism, I have heard well reasoned reports, some from well respected scientific journals, about the causal association between early physical and sexual abuse and a later interest …
Bison and the Magic Women of Burning Angel
After taking some time off for family visits and the Olympics (Whew, Awesome), I am back to Saturday at Exxxotica. Again, waking on that soft couch, OWS and I went off to an early lunch so I could head back …
Mental Domination – The Jedi Power
“What I think is mental domination..hmm..I think it’s something like the Jedi power. It’s getting to know someone so I know what makes them tick, and can use that to control them, give them orders, and all the rest. I …
Shades Freed
I have finished the “Fifty Shades of Grey” series. Again, I will do my best to avoid any plot points. I know it is a phenomenally popular series, and do not wish to spoil it for any prospective readers.
But …