Posts more suitable for kink friendly readers.
I wanted to talk a bit about myself. You must understand that what I am about to say about myself, to the extent that I can manage at this time of my life, is the truth. Within the context of the lifestyle, I am very much a Dominant. Now I …
In a recent conversation I was having on FetLife.Com, a friend mentioned that “Its all about trust and having fun while doing so at least for me.” That prompted a rather heartfelt response from me and I thought I would elaborate here. As you know, I have been reading “50 …
I am very happy to be going off to Chicago to see family and friends and to present for three days at the Dungeon at Chicago’s Exxxotica, July 13th through 15th. Feel free to come and say hello, talk, ask questions, show your style, or play. I will be glad …
I tend to have this discussion several times a year. People ask me why I like to torture people. My usual and almost imediate reaction is to look at them with an expression of, “Christ, what kind of an Ass Hole do you think I am?” So I thought I would …
I will be describing a form of rope bondage here, but text is a bit awkward for that purpose and I will not include massive numbers of photos or video as that is not the purpose of this post, so I will begin with a strong caveat. Bondage is by far the …
In the lifestyle there is, and has been for as long as I can remember, the repeated discussion over how you punish a Masochist. A masochist, to my way of thinking is someone who gets sexual enjoyment out of extreme forms of physical stimulation. She (or he) is a pain …
I was pleased to be given an advance copy of Rachel Kramer Bussel’s new book “Women in Lust“. It is a book of short stories (readers here will know my love of the medium) hovering around my chosen theme of the BDSM lifestyle as seen through the eyes and hearts …
There is so much debate in kink circles about cause and effect, origins, if what we do is learned or caused or a reaction to. I do not really have answers, and do not mean to position myself as one who does. But this I know. Once someone has discovered, …
I have, recently, been talking at length about the welcoming of women, LGBT friends and general human kind as valued equals in your life. I am sure that gives an impression that I am a kind, socially skilled animal who is appropriately polite to friends and strangers alike. I like …
I have been reading, through most of this week, many writings, painful to read, from Jack Rinella (Link No Longer Found), Kinky Little Girl, Sequi, Charlie Glickman, Clarisse Thorn (Link NLF), Asher (Link NLF), and many others, all begun by Kitty Stryker’s (Link NLF) masterful article in “Good Vibrations Magazine” as …
