Punishing a Masochist

In the lifestyle there is, and has been for as long as I can remember, the repeated discussion over how you punish a Masochist.  A masochist, to my way of thinking is someone who gets sexual enjoyment out of extreme forms of physical stimulation.  She (or he) is a pain …

Communication

It is often thought, I suppose, that in a Dominant and submissive relationship the Dominant decides how it is to be run, the submissive does it the Dominant’s way.  I often see on forums and discussion boards, submissives and Dominant’s alike asking about how to handle situations where the submissive is having …

Request for Comments

The last two posts were, well, to say the least, a little off the beaten path, even for me.  But it is something that has been going through my mind.  While there is little in the way of known testing methods for theories on the nature of thought and the …

Opposites Detract part Deux

So, here we are, this fuzzy conglomerate of matter and action, all throbbing to vibrations we are only beginning to understand.  Possibly even that understanding is beyond our possibilities.  But the questions are being asked. All I am struggling with are possibilities, things that might be.  The conclusions I draw here have …

Opposites Detract

So many things have been going through my mind these last few days.  Relationships, desire, faith, my mind, the mind, gratitude, quantum physics, manifestation all floating together in one huge unformulated mass (mess?).  How it will all come together, or even whether or not it should, is still a mater …

Training a submissive on Line

To be very straight forward, I question the point of on line training.  Certainly, I can give directions, tasks, lessons, and or demand and describe punishments on line.  A submissive can do them, or tell me they have done them, and we can live that way in our fantasies, but …

Dance with me

I am an actor.  Been one for a long time.  I can display both reason and emotions from prospectives profoundly varied.  Many characters reside within and I can, and do, display them with aplomb.  What I can not do is….Dance.  It has been a great shame of my existence.  That is one …

Catching up

OK, OK, yea, I know, there is a LOT I haven’t kept up with over the last few months.  So SORRRRRRRY!  One of the main items is mail, both snail paper and e.  Bills, well, you know, people who send bills tend to remind you.  Irritating, ain’t it?  I just found …

Beginning again

First of all I would like to thank my loyal fans for their patience over this long hiatus.  Packing up a residence of 18 years for as many as 6 people and moving to a location of indeterminate size was and is a monumental endeavor.  My computer did not survive the move unscathed, and …

18

Why is it that one can see on some social media sites statements such as, “I have been a submissive all my life.  I want to explore.  I want to be owned.”  This from someone Eighteen years of age. Now please understand, I believe it is possible that a person …

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