First my apologies for the absence of posts. Holidays (may yours be filled with friends, family and joy) plus the need to prepare for a move from our large house holding many for as long as eighteen years, the following January is a daunting task taking much time. But opening …
In wondering what my best advice to a beginning submissive might be, two things in particular come to mind. I fear I may be a bit redundant, but the advice is good. First, every relationship is unique to the people within it. While you will hear and read a LOT …
This was my response to a thread on FetLife.Com. This is a membership social media site aimed at the Kink and BDSM communities. The original question was expressed by someone new to the lifestyle and wishing to find a relationship with a Dominant personality but was having trouble. —————————————————— We …
In FetLife I saw the following as a statement on being a Daddy. I thought it a good description which struck some notes within me. “Make no mistake – this is fantasy, not reality. I do not wear a suit every day. My life isn’t cast in black & white, …
I’ve been doing a lot of thinking about stories lately, stories that define us, stories that sustain us, stories tied to family, friends, ourselves, stories tied to objects in our lives. So many things about us come as words, nouns, verbs, meanings that are used to form the stories of …
Thoughts came when I read Dr. Carol Queen’s article in Good Vibrations this morning, “Things to be Thankful For (In Bed)”. (All links no longer Active.) We fight traffic, gather the family together, shop, cook, prepare, talk, drink, celebrate…..something, a dinner, a party, getting together, something. But in all of that effort, it …
I lived in a northern suburb of Chicago, from my earliest memory to a bit past high school—somewhere around the late 1960s. I know the lake, the weather, the trees shuffling off their summer coats to bear their flesh for winter. But time changes things in ways you do not …
I am sure that there are times when every writer wonders who is listening. When I sit down in front of this judgmental keyboard I hear the editors behind me commenting over and over about how this or that might offend, or turn off a reader. Intimidating. (The man desires …
I have tried to post several times a week. That may get a little ragged. When inspiration strikes, I will definitely get something up here, but the house is sold, 90 day escrow, inspections are starting, new location is found, division of property among the family members has begun, and moving from …
I was pleased to be given an advance copy of Rachel Kramer Bussel’s new book “Women in Lust“. It is a book of short stories (readers here will know my love of the medium) hovering around my chosen theme of the BDSM lifestyle as seen through the eyes and hearts …
