Ever made love to someone on the phone? No, I am not talking about phone sex. I am talking about the game of beginning those aggressive caresses while your partner is on the phone to their mother, or boss, or very vanilla friend. You know, when they give you an insistent frown and mouth …
I must admit, I got a chuckle out of this. There was an interesting article on a seeming connection between absorbing semen and a woman’s mood. I mean, what a delightful idea, what a fun way of making someone happy. But my post isn’t actually about semen and a woman’s emotional …
I have been doing a lot of thinking, lately, about protocols and how we use them. For those with any experience in the BDSM lifestyle, the term “Protocol” is almost ubiquitous. Amazon has eighteen books listed under the search “BDSM Protocol” four of which are written or edited by my friend Robert Rubel. …
What is the value of a secret? You sit with business associates in the bar as your wife approaches. You stand politely, she comes to you and whispers a short greeting in your ear before sitting and joining the company. A scene repeated thousands of times through out the country. …
This was sent to me a while back by a delightfully knowledgeable and kinky woman, Madeline Elayne, but I had not the time nor attention availability to get to it. While I really do hope to get back to the warm, wet and fuzzy areas of erotic life, I just think this is …
I read an article (link No Longer Active) the other day stating that single sex schools did not show any advantage to either sex in academic performance. Remembering a conversation many years back with someone whose opinions I value, I passed it on to her and asked for her opinion. What follows …
A Gentleman asked a question about what to do to assist a young lady who stated she was abused in a BDSM context. An answer from Sir Alan follows. I found it very wise. (Quoted with permission.) Do you have an elder that you can go to with this in …
An excellent post, today by Charlie Glickman on what it means when we use the term “Family Values”. It started over the story of Leisha Hailey getting kicked off a Southwest Airlines plane when she kissed her girlfriend. Now I do not know the style or intensity of the kiss, but I am sure …
In yesterday’s post I mentioned a book I was reading of short short erotic stories. I read one that just electrified me. It is called “Wonderland” by Madeline Elayne. I do not want to give it all away, but it shows the incredible creativity of a loving submissive towards her Domme …
As my children entered school and moved through their elementary grades I wanted to continue my involvement in their lives and school by asking permission from their teachers to come in and read stories. In the earlier grades I looked to the Caldecott Award winners because of the illustrations. As they moved through …
