As I wish to emphasize the Erotic here and in my life, I think it is worth while to concentrate periodically on what seems erotic to me. The scene in “American Beauty” filmed by the character Ricky Fitts (Wes Bently) of a piece of paper tossed by the wind. The smell …
I try to pay attention when messages come at me from widely divergent directions. If a business partner and romantic partner both remark on the same kind of behavior, it is probably a pretty valid comment. On a more metaphysical level, if consistant information comes to you from discontinuous and unrelated sources, the benevolent universe …
I often meet people just beginning to explore more kinky forms of sexual expression or wishing to engage in a more Dominant and/or submissive lifestyle. Beyond listening and observing what actually excites them, the best advice I can give anyone is to seek education. I apologize to all who may …
I was asked this yesterday. Considering my posts, I am sure the answer is obvious, but the question is something we should all consider. What made you Horny Today? I think the importance of the question is that it makes us think and remember, and concentrate. There was a time …
Before clicking around on this post, you had best know that the links are VERY NSFW. (I have tried to unlink all that no longer function April 2023) This past weekend, immediately upon my return from Austin, I was invited to present at Exxxotica LA. For those who do not …
On Aug 23, 2011 11:35 PMPoor sad Lordesburg. Three exits, Motel Avenue West, Main Street, Motel Avenue West. Want good Mexican? Ramona’s, Three miles down to your right. Past Business after business, closed, empty, or maybe a hand painted sign, “Superior Motel, $24.95”. Tired from the drive, still high from …
I have just returned from a truly delightful weekend presenting for The Group In Fresno (TGIF). I was able to meet many new and interesting people, including a lovely Dyke on a Bike, in inspiration for a Simpson’s Character, and a gentleman who proudly states his hand was broken by …
We sometimes talk about being or becoming a Master. If you are curious and wish to look on the internet or in BDSM circles, you will find many people who call themselves such. That is their right. It is for you to judge if it is deserved. Some have honored …
I identify with the term “Daddy”, but there are a lot of differing interpretations of the term. While some enjoy infantile play, that is not for me. I am done with changing diapers. Researching a good definition for my view, I saw the below a few days back and requested permission to …
I heard a woman say, “If you want me to submit, you have to prove yourself.” Whew, prove myself. Don’t know really where that takes me. I find myself taking things very slowly right now. When I have the opportunity, those elements of my Dominance that come across easily just …
