I have, recently, been talking at length about the welcoming of women, LGBT friends and general human kind as valued equals in your life. I am sure that gives an impression that I am a kind, socially skilled animal who is appropriately polite to friends and strangers alike. I like …
I am sitting at my computer watching ground squirrels run back and forth by the windows behind my screen and hoping that the coyotes come back. They make meals out of small minded little rodents. I am thinking about the end of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell and suddenly reminded of …
It has been a hard week here. Broken bones, lost sleep, house robbed, relationships ending, and trying to sell our home at the worst time for home sales in my lifetime. So how do I sit here and think about what makes life joyous and erotic? I do not know, …
KinkyLittleGirl (pardon the capitalization, my dear) has been posting some pertinent blogs on Domestic Abuse, Abuse within the BDSM community and many related subjects. (Yes, we are mutual subscribers.) But a recent post brought out this response from me. So, you want to learn how to be a slave. Well, the only …
I have been reading, through most of this week, many writings, painful to read, from Jack Rinella (Link No Longer Found), Kinky Little Girl, Sequi, Charlie Glickman, Clarisse Thorn (Link NLF), Asher (Link NLF), and many others, all begun by Kitty Stryker’s (Link NLF) masterful article in “Good Vibrations Magazine” as …
There us a mantra I tend to use. “Listen to your body.” It will tell you much. As you look at others play, see how it affects you. Even if it is technically brilliant, if it does not affect you, then look elsewhere. Differing forms of play affect us in …
From a recent collection of studies (unfortunately the link is not longer active) aimed primarily at women (excepting the last), it seems that frequent sex can… (to be said very quickly in one breath): Decrease stress, relieve pain, relieve depression, develop your brain, decrease incidence of brain cancer, assist in your sleep, …
I have just read about David Lee, the former chancellor of the University of Northern Virginia. He resigned recently. You see the University of Northern Virginia, unfortunately, was under investigation for possible Visa violations (the endorsement on a passport, not the credit card) and as a part of that investigation, immigration authorities …
It is difficult to describe why I am a sadist. Many would wish to place me in a convenient box to support their own gestalt. After all, I am a mature man (read “old geezer”) who takes pleasure in applying severe sensation (read “hurting”) consenting women (read “defenseless little girls.”). I have asked friends …
A little over 20 years ago I attempted to fill a great hole in my life by entering into a text based relationship on line. I was astounded how easily and quickly I met, fell in love, and had my heart painfully broken. This incident was the motivation for a lot of …
