In the world of BDSM the concept of Dominance over another is all pervasive. While I strongly hold to the concept that every human sexual interaction has elements of Dominance and submission, there are many who feel that this Dominance requires some level of subjugation or sacrifice by the submissive to the …
Beyond the glories of GreySkull it is good to talk about Power and the proverbial exchange. A good friend often talks about the man standing in front of his kneeling submissive, receiving fellatio. She describes his engorged member moving between two opposing sets of strong teeth while his testicles are nestled in a …
There are very few things as relaxing, comforting, warming, and erotic as a massage, full body, deep tissue, rolfing, foot, hands, or just the common sholder rub. Parenthetically, I must say, from the experience, the process of being rolfed is not necessarily relaxing nor erotic, but the immediate result quite often is. A …
I do not know if I am advocating polyamory or not. I have had little actual experience and see many possible problems. (Sort of the geometric situation, A and B can relate as A, B, and AB, three individual ways. But add a third and you have A, B, C, …
If you are interested in someone, watch how they move through a crowded doorway. Do they wait and hold the door for someone less mobile, or someone with their hands full? Do they stride through and let the door swing, assuming that they who follow will catch it? Do they look …
Watch her. Examine her face, lips, eyes, cheeks, hair, ears. Do not touch, not yet. But step in. Be there. Be Present. This will never happen again, never the same way. This is a moment to experience. Come close. Do not lean, stand tall, know who you are. Closer. If …
There we are, sitting on a bench by the beach, or in a restaurant, hips and shoulders touching, hands, maybe on each other’s leg, looking at the people walking by. Close, being with, sharing with each other who we are. Friends, bonded, partners, willing to spend the time to be …
The most erotic word I know is…”Please.” The Eroticist
I would ask you all to do a little research on H.R. 1981 and see if you feel as threatened as I do by its possible passage. I include some informative links. http://news.cnet.com/8301-31921_3-20084939-281/house-panel-approves-broadened-isp-snooping-bill/ http://lifehacker.com/5825746 http://www.zdnet.com/blog/violetblue/how-the-new-8216protecting-children-bill-puts-you-at-risk/590 The Eroticist
I think it is important to note here that while it is good and important to express what it is you want, that is not necessarily what it is you need. This concept will often arise when someone is the more Dominant partner in a relationship such as a parent. Those of …
