Chicago Friday

First I want to apologize for the extended silence.  While I will spare you the rather lurid details, shortly before my trip to Chicago I caught a bug which has seemed to be intractable.  So far, no diagnosis and to one level or another, it has stayed with me.  While in …

Back to Chicago

I will be going back to Chicago, July 10 to the 18th.  I am greatly looking forward to my visit.  I will be there to speak, perform and pontificate at Mistress C’s Exxxotica Dungeon for the three days of the convention. But it is my home town and where I lived …

For the Love of a Submissive

This was quoted in a Tumblr gathered by my puppy bear and I found it spot on.  After a bit of looking I found the original here if you wish to follow. ———- Dominant Traits – Submission is Earned Not Ordered In my seemingly endless quest to identify and describe the essence …

What is Important

My life does not point towards the business end of things.  Even in creative endeavors, that part of it has always been difficult for me.  But I have often found great personal wisdom from Seth Godin.  Case in point, today’s was about the difference between speaking, and speaking up. I …

Questions and Answers

I ask you your feelings about things because I want to know.  How do you feel about that?  Do you like this? Do you want to go?  Where’s your head?  Do you trust him?  Why are you saying yes?  Why no?  Why? When I have the answers then I have an …

Control

It has been a long time since I have written here. I apologize for that. As I think you know, I have recently moved several states from California, and for good or ill, I will tell you now that Texas is far more than moving to another state. It is …

A Collar of Consideration

As those who know me are quite aware, I tend to be rather free in voicing my opinion.  I don’t really feel there is anything wrong in that as I also tend to listen to the reactions.  I was in a large group the other day where the subject of …

Late Announcement

I will be on Dr. Bob Rubel’s webinar this evening 6p Pacific (9pm Eastern).  You must sign up for the class, but they are free. The subject is  “I want a Daddy” – Nurturing Relationships with Arach and Brett – What is a Daddy? Do Daddy’s play sexually with their little girls/boys? Is this …

A Merry and a Happy

It has been a while since I wrote here.  I hope you are all well.  It seems that I am now settled in the Austin Area.  I have touched base with members of my family, have taken delivery of all STUFF (far more than I have any reason to have …

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