When Things get Rough

There is no relationship on earth, through out the existence of life that has not had severely rough times.  I have to say at the outset that this is absolutely true of me.  Rough times come with the territory, particularly …

The Shades of Grey

I think this will be a multiple post.  I have been reading the ever popular “50 Shades of Grey.”  I will do my best not to present spoilers, but it gives me an opportunity to talk a bit about the …

Who I am

I think it is time to say a little about who I am.  I am in a period of rediscovery, redefinition, an exploration of parts that have long been ignored.

I love the sexuality of women.  There is something there …

First Meetings

I have been hearing lately from some people who are experiencing some difficulty with first meetings.  Please understand that any recommendation made can go for male or female, Dominant or submissive.  I will honestly say that I was planning an …

Serving your slave

I have seen, at times to my horror, unbearably simplistic descriptions of the Dominant/submissive or Master/slave dynamic.  As a caveat let me say that there are innumerable forms of these relationships and I am expressing my views here on only …

Punishing a Masochist

In the lifestyle there is, and has been for as long as I can remember, the repeated discussion over how you punish a Masochist.  A masochist, to my way of thinking is someone who gets sexual enjoyment out of extreme …

Communication

It is often thought, I suppose, that in a Dominant and submissive relationship the Dominant decides how it is to be run, the submissive does it the Dominant’s way.  I often see on forums and discussion boards, submissives and Dominant’s …

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