Hair

As a caveat to this post I must say that photos included other than my own are unfortunately uncredited.  If anyone recognizes any and can supply information, I will immediately add the information.  If anyone complains reasonably about one, I will remove it. So, to move on, I found a wonderfully …

Who I am

I think it is time to say a little about who I am.  I am in a period of rediscovery, redefinition, an exploration of parts that have long been ignored. I love the sexuality of women.  There is something there that astounds me, the willingness to share on levels that …

To Bind the Mind

I will be describing a form of rope bondage here, but text is a bit awkward for that purpose and I will not include massive numbers of photos or video as that is not the purpose of this post, so I will begin with a strong caveat.  Bondage is by far the …

Dance with me

I am an actor.  Been one for a long time.  I can display both reason and emotions from prospectives profoundly varied.  Many characters reside within and I can, and do, display them with aplomb.  What I can not do is….Dance.  It has been a great shame of my existence.  That is one …

Taking Time

First my apologies for the absence of posts.  Holidays (may yours be filled with friends, family and joy) plus the need to prepare for a move from our large house holding many for as long as eighteen years, the following January is a daunting task taking much time. But opening …

Book Tour

I was pleased to be given an advance copy of Rachel Kramer Bussel’s new book “Women in Lust“.  It is a book of short stories (readers here will know my love of the medium) hovering around my chosen theme of the BDSM lifestyle as seen through the eyes and hearts …

Every Moment, a Quantum of Joy

It happens over and over, every day.  Something crosses our path that gives us just that tiny lift, a quantum of Joy.  It can be anything.  Traditional things, like a quick image of beauty, a smell that evokes, the music of a laugh.  Sometime it is something unusual, the flight …

Cum on, Women 3, Men 4?

In an article I read yesterday one of the reported misconceptions about men and women was the following: “4. Women have far fewer orgasms than men do.“ Well yes, I knew that was wrong. “…In a study published in the book “Families as They Really Are,” (W.W. Norton and Co., 2009), …

Penthouse, please

I have often mention Reid Mihalko‘s Safe Sex Elevator Speech.  This video out now explains it rather well, being done by Reid himself. It was a difficult step to get to for me.  What he suggests is that you should, when you find someone that attracts you, go right up …

Through a Glass, Darkly

Today I was tweet refered to a superb post by Renee Randazzo (Unfortunately, no longer found).  While the context was primarily from a female Feminist point of view I found the words strongly echo within me. “Me and my sexuality have had a tumultuous relationship.  I have been paralyzed by shame for …

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