What I Really Want?

At this unfortunately late stage of my life, I have finally come to the conclusion that if I don’t tell anyone what it is I want, I probably won’t get it. That seems like a simple concept, but it is not.  Because what we really want is usually embarrassing, shameful, childish, unacceptable …

I HAVE THE POWER

OK, crazy time here.  Where IS my mind going? Standing in front of a receptive open mouth, He-Man cries, “By the Power of GreySkull.  I HAVE THE POWER.”  Then He points this long, hard, fully charged “sword” at a his (submissive?) pussy “Cringer”, who becomes engorged…ah…larger (and now blood red) …

Disadvantages of Repression

It would be difficult, at this time, to present any cogent argument denying the systematic subjugation of women over the history of this planet.  The sexual interests, fantasies, desires, and activities of women have been demonized, denied, and pathologized.  While this has secured the male a dubious position of “superiority,” …

THE Reflex

I am a great appreciator of receiving oral sex.  I am an even greater appreciator of a woman who works hard to do it well and…shall we say, “completely“. Two thirds of the demographic who have attempted to learn the penetrative oral art have run into the gag or pharyngeal reflex.  Any …

It’s Easy

Because it is easy to fall in love we think it is easy to love. Thinking it easy to love, we think it hard to find the right person. Thinking it hard to find the right person, when we have trouble loving, we think to look for someone else. Loving …

Time for Dinner

Next time you go out to dinner with someone you love, as you pull out their chair and move them in, gently run your hands down each arm and softly move their hands either behind them, or if that is uncomfortable, into their lap, and whisper into their ear, “Do …

Vulnerability for all

Just saw a good video on Vulnerability.  In it, Brené Brown talks eloquently about how “Vulnerability is absolutely at the core of fear, and anxiety and shame and very difficult emotions that we all experience.  But vulnerability is also the birthplace of joy, of love, of belonging, of creativity, of faith.”  Now I …

A Woman’s Words

“I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, …

The Tinker Bell Post

The Tinker Bell Post “What is it? Why am I so dissatisfied?  My life is pretty good by what everyone tells me, so why am I so unhappy?” Does this sound familiar?  I am making a huge leap here, but that certainly is where I came from.  Well, folks, I …

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