I think I can safely say that everyone knows the concept of Practice. If you practice a craft, you get better at it. You learn simpler ways of doing it. You become more consistent at it. Doing the craft becomes easier for you. With exercise, a kind of practice, your reflexes become faster …
It is difficult for me to describe with to anyone in any believable way how important it is to me that my partner cums. I do not mean, “Oh, that was nice” I mean totally out of control complete out of body, move to exhaustion or loss of consciousness cum. I mean women …
It was told to me that in the annals of porn that talking dirty, now a mainstay of the industry, was once something that needed to be coached from the actors. (Actually, primarily the actresses, since in mainstream porn, it is the ladies who carry the spot-lite, or microphone in this case.) That …
Hmm, where did I leave off. Ah, Saturday night’s party. It was a club slightly different than my experience. The play-space was medium in size with what almost seemed a gallery (I did not say peanut) near the entrance where many members sat and watched the goings on. The scene …
Twas Friday night after a long drive from Santa Barbara to Tucson. I left early, but that dumped me in LA right through morning rush hour. My GPS told me that added an hour to my travel time. Finally I arrived and after some search, finally found the hotel. I …
Today was a busy day with shopping to re-supply the apartment, auditions for the Santa Barbara Art Association (they like it, so I guess I am an official artist now), and dealing with a back in spasm due to the 10 hour drive, but I wanted to quickly mention how much I …
I am very pumped. I am off to Tucson next Friday to present at Behind Closed Doors in Tucson. I have searched for and found a lovely lady to assist and be my Demo Bottom, and have exchanged many emails on all levels of expectations, attitudes and interests. She seems a …
I have been away for a while, and my apologies go out to my consistent readers. My mind has been occupied by computer issues, art and new people. My friend KinkyLittleGirl (Link on the right) had a repost up recently brought over from FetLife, as she said, both postings are interesting for …
This has been a hard post to express. I know my conclusions, but how did I get there? My issue is that the usual description of the Dominant and submissive relationship is, not only simplistic, but usually completely false. “I tell her what to do. She does it.” “She is here …
I must admit to a bit of hesitation every time I hear the adjective “REAL” (usually in caps) applied to either submissive or Dominant. It is most often used to describe how “you” or “he” or “she” is not a REAL submissive because…. Or how a REAL Dominant should behave. It …
