At this unfortunately late stage of my life, I have finally come to the conclusion that if I don’t tell anyone what it is I want, I probably won’t get it. That seems like a simple concept, but it is not. Because what we really want is usually embarrassing, shameful, childish, unacceptable …
OK, crazy time here. Where IS my mind going? Standing in front of a receptive open mouth, He-Man cries, “By the Power of GreySkull. I HAVE THE POWER.” Then He points this long, hard, fully charged “sword” at a his (submissive?) pussy “Cringer”, who becomes engorged…ah…larger (and now blood red) …
I am a highly sexual, sadistic, Dominant man. I am willing and able to engage a consenting, informed, adult partner in extreme forms of sexual activity, and sensation play. I am willing to engage them in humiliation and embarrassment, I will use insulting descriptions and speak in the foulest of language if …
I should say at the outset that I do not know the answer to the opening question, but I suspect. Many people within the scene life and far more outside of it tend to feel that those of us who show interest in alternate adult sexual activity and relationships have …
It would be difficult, at this time, to present any cogent argument denying the systematic subjugation of women over the history of this planet. The sexual interests, fantasies, desires, and activities of women have been demonized, denied, and pathologized. While this has secured the male a dubious position of “superiority,” …
I am a great appreciator of receiving oral sex. I am an even greater appreciator of a woman who works hard to do it well and…shall we say, “completely“. Two thirds of the demographic who have attempted to learn the penetrative oral art have run into the gag or pharyngeal reflex. Any …
Because it is easy to fall in love we think it is easy to love. Thinking it easy to love, we think it hard to find the right person. Thinking it hard to find the right person, when we have trouble loving, we think to look for someone else. Loving …
Many years ago I was told a Zen tale about a Master who gave each of three students a chicken and told them to butcher the chicken where no one sees. Well, obviously, knowing Zen tales and the title of this post, one came back with a live chicken and …
What if I told my loved one that watching other women excited me? What if I told her that watching another man excited me? If I said I wanted to be powerless could she hear me? If I wanted her to be powerless, could she join with me in my excitement? How …
Any form of alternate lifestyle can be a difficult one to manage, Gay, Transgender, BDSM, or Poly (and more that I do not have room to mentioned). We are attempting to structure our day to day lives under new and different rules, rules of our own creation. But the relationship skills …
