About Time

I am just home from watching the film, “About Time” with Bill Nighy, Domhnall Gleeson, and Rachel McAdams.  Yea, this sounds as if it will be a movie review, and maybe it will.  It was greatly enjoyable.  I was laughing loudly and weeping copiously, for reasons that are probably quite …

Moving and Brene Brown

Within the next few months, certainly before the end of the year, I will be leaving the most beautiful city of Santa Barbara, California and moving to Austin, Texas.  There are many thoughts, fears, and expectations around this endeavor but those are not the purpose of this blog.  That statement …

Behind Closed Doors – 2012 (2)

Sunday began with some nerves as it was my time for a presentation “Sexualizing Your Scene”.  I mean what do you do with that.  Isn’t sex the point?  In many cases, no.  Some people enjoy extensive forms of Sadomasochistic play, humiliation play, service or entire relationships which do not involve sexual …

Continuing BonB

I will continue my description of my delightful weekend at “Behind Closed Doors – Mutation“ but I have a need to express a bit about a dear girl previously mentioned here as BonB.  I wrote extensively about my relationship with her beginning here and continuing on for several – more – posts. This …

Behind Closed Doors 2012

I have just returned from an excellent weekend in Tucson at Behind Closed Doors – Mutation, run by the Baja Arizona Leather organization and run and created by the phenomenal Jefferson James and his good lady Lois, both of whom did a Phenominal job this weekend involving a great deal …

With a Word

I have started this blog many times and am still not sure how to go about it.  I want to talk about that magical moment when a woman comes for you.  Yes, women can obviously cum for themselves, and many do.  Some cum for themselves even when they are with …

Tomorrow, and the Game

As many of you know I have been in communication with a truly delightful young girl who is quite close to my heart.  Since we are both quite distant right now, and because we both are highly sexual creatures, we often play quite serious sexual games over the phone.  As …

10 Days to Independence

I want to talk about a very personal and unique time in my life.  I have misgivings about speaking about it in this forum, but it is extremely important to me, and it touches on many things discussed here. In my last post I mentioned that an important and significant …

BonB, That Night, The Morning, and a Parting Gift

What happened that night, which included minimal amounts of sleep, was extremely significant and extraordinarily subtle.  So much so that it will be difficult to describe.  But the importance to communication, understanding, and Dominant and submissive relationships in general can not be overstated. You must understand that the vast amount of our …

BonB for Dinner

So Exxxotica is finished, I am having a delightful time re-exploring my old home town.  (Raised from year 1 in the same house on the North Shore outside of Chicago all the way through my college years.)  I had a needed opportunity to see my admired and loved cousin and …

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