Please, Sir, tell me how you want it done.
Why is it that one can see on some social media sites statements such as, “I have been a submissive all my life. I want to explore. I want to be owned.” This from someone Eighteen years of age. Now please understand, I believe it is possible that a person …
In wondering what my best advice to a beginning submissive might be, two things in particular come to mind. I fear I may be a bit redundant, but the advice is good. First, every relationship is unique to the people within it. While you will hear and read a LOT …
This was my response to a thread on FetLife.Com. This is a membership social media site aimed at the Kink and BDSM communities. The original question was expressed by someone new to the lifestyle and wishing to find a relationship with a Dominant personality but was having trouble. —————————————————— We …
In FetLife I saw the following as a statement on being a Daddy. I thought it a good description which struck some notes within me. “Make no mistake – this is fantasy, not reality. I do not wear a suit every day. My life isn’t cast in black & white, …
I am sure that there are times when every writer wonders who is listening. When I sit down in front of this judgmental keyboard I hear the editors behind me commenting over and over about how this or that might offend, or turn off a reader. Intimidating. (The man desires …
I was pleased to be given an advance copy of Rachel Kramer Bussel’s new book “Women in Lust“. It is a book of short stories (readers here will know my love of the medium) hovering around my chosen theme of the BDSM lifestyle as seen through the eyes and hearts …
It happens over and over, every day. Something crosses our path that gives us just that tiny lift, a quantum of Joy. It can be anything. Traditional things, like a quick image of beauty, a smell that evokes, the music of a laugh. Sometime it is something unusual, the flight …
A friend told me that they had begun a new relationship with someone who had interest in the lifestyle, but little experience, much like themselves. They asked me if it was better to begin a lifestyle relationship with someone as new as them, or someone more experienced. This was my …
Most of you know my feelings about Dominance and submission and how it is an element in every romantic and sexual relationship, no matter how “vanilla” it might be. I allude to it here and here, perhaps other places as well. Well, if you are considering a more formalized D/s relationship, …
I loved Seth Goden’s blog of yesterday (Link goes to his blog, but not the one I meant). Though he speaks most in channels of business and career, I think these thoughts translate to a far wider realm. Which are you? …competent, inspiring, passionate, obsessed, provocative, impatient, hungry, driven, adoring, …
