Please, Sir, tell me how you want it done.
This is a continuation of my blog on the “50 Shades of Grey” trilogy by E. L. James. As I do not wish to present spoilers I will concentrate on several points other than the plot which come to mind. I also should say that I have finished reading only …
I think this will be a multiple post. I have been reading the ever popular “50 Shades of Grey.” I will do my best not to present spoilers, but it gives me an opportunity to talk a bit about the difference between delightful and popular fiction, life as it presents …
I have been reading Clarisse Thorn’s blog for some time. She is a fine writer who rejoices in, not only her strong feminism, but her extensive experiences in BDSM. Though I have been pulled away for a while, I came back today and read “My Mom’s Rape Story, and A Confused Relationship With …
I was reading a blog from earlier this month by my friend Ana. She talks about being a bit hungover after an early play session with her on line Dominant. While she did not mention the kind of play or the actions she undertook at his command, her reaction was one …
I will be describing a form of rope bondage here, but text is a bit awkward for that purpose and I will not include massive numbers of photos or video as that is not the purpose of this post, so I will begin with a strong caveat. Bondage is by far the …
I have been hearing lately from some people who are experiencing some difficulty with first meetings. Please understand that any recommendation made can go for male or female, Dominant or submissive. I will honestly say that I was planning an extensive post here, but in checking through my links, truly, it …
I have seen, at times to my horror, unbearably simplistic descriptions of the Dominant/submissive or Master/slave dynamic. As a caveat let me say that there are innumerable forms of these relationships and I am expressing my views here on only one aspect I feel important. In comments to my last post, nabterayl …
In the lifestyle there is, and has been for as long as I can remember, the repeated discussion over how you punish a Masochist. A masochist, to my way of thinking is someone who gets sexual enjoyment out of extreme forms of physical stimulation. She (or he) is a pain …
It is often thought, I suppose, that in a Dominant and submissive relationship the Dominant decides how it is to be run, the submissive does it the Dominant’s way. I often see on forums and discussion boards, submissives and Dominant’s alike asking about how to handle situations where the submissive is having …
To be very straight forward, I question the point of on line training. Certainly, I can give directions, tasks, lessons, and or demand and describe punishments on line. A submissive can do them, or tell me they have done them, and we can live that way in our fantasies, but …
