Relationship skills

I am finding at this time that it is difficult to remember what happened on which days, so if chronology seems a bit strained, please excuse me. As you hopefully know, I tend to emphasize relationship issues.  It is what particularly moves me, it is what I desire.  Casual play …

Willing Participants

While I often wander around the convention hall with my single tail and handcuffs, cracking as sort of a “Hear Ye, Hear Ye, Thy Dungeon is open for the Interested”  The best time of all is spent in the play space talking to people who have serious interest and explaining, …

Chicago

I am just back from a truly glorious twelve days in Chicago.  The trip was basically for two reasons, as many of you know.  The first, for Exxxotica, three long days midst masses of eye candy, quality presenters, and vast quantities of willing participants.  The second to visit, reconnect and …

Exxxotica Chicago

I am heavily into prep for my trip to Chicago.  Three intense days at Exxxotica with my friend Mistress C, followed by a week wandering my old home town with relatives and fond friends both old and new.  I will try to inform you all about the happenings, but I will …

Words from Daddy

I have heard many people express concern over Daddy/Little Girl relationships.  Their concern has been expressed to me as to the elements of incest and possible under 18 play.  My personal view of Daddy/Little Girl play centers around the affection and nurturing necessary from a parental figure towards someone within their …

Death of DOMA, and work to do.

There are more words to say about this momentous decision than are in my ability to write.  Most will be said in interviews and blogs and tweets.  But the most important will be said between committed couples who now can feel that their commitment to each other is considered as …

My Master’s Rights

I often talk with people who identify as a submissive, and often they ask me if their Master has the right to do…well…whatever.  My answer is always, “If you give them that right.” I fear, sometimes, that we on the Dominant side of the equation have worked very hard to …

Honesty, Transparency

For quite a while I have been reading a blog from a lovely young girl who talks eloquently about her submission.  She talks about her deep commitment to her Dominant partner, how profoundly erotic is the relationship and how much she trust him with her deepest secrets. There is much there that …

She Isn’t Kidding

What do you do when someone you have known and loved for many many years suddenly tells you she wants you to hurt her?  She wants you to be rough with her.  She wants to be spanked, to be bit, to be slapped, to get marks from you, marks that …

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